How to Read Minds
Yes, you can read other people's minds to some extent. Maybe
not like Mel Gibson in that silly movie, "What Women Want,"
but you can learn how to get a better idea of the general
state of mind and receptivity of the person in front of you.
The following is just one of the techniques for mind reading.
Watch Those Pupils
A persons pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested
and/or receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those
pupils growing large - it's looking good for you. Basically,
big pupils (unless it's just dark) mean a person likes what they
see.
Try this experiment, and you'll understand how immediate this
effect can be. Go right now and look in the mirror at your own
eyes. As you look at them, imagine a sexy man or woman you are
attracted to - in whatever way would turn you on. You'll see
that your pupils get bigger in just seconds.
Actually, if you love to fish, they may get big just thinking
about a lake you love. Anything you like to look at can make
your pupils bigger. How do you use this knowledge to read minds?
First, watch for changing of pupil size to know if someone
is interested in you or what you have to say. Shrinking or pupils
generally mean the person is not interested. Be careful to note
if light in the persons eyes is causing the shrinking pupils,
or if a darkening room is causing the pupil enlargement.
Besides judging the general level of interest and/or receptivity
to you, you can use pupil size to go a little deeper into a person's
mind. For example, during the course of a conversation, you could
describe various scenes or delve into different topics, while
watching the persons pupils. Suppose his pupils shrank at the
mention of skiing, and got huge when you described a beach you
like. You can be fairly certain they would like the Bahamas over
a ski resort.
One thing about this little mind reading trick is that you
can easily test it and refine your technique. Practice and read
minds with a friend whose interests you know already. Just watch
this or her pupils as you describe various places or even ideas.
Try getting them to visualize, by saying something "Remember
how that car of yours looked," to see if that gets a bigger
pupil response.
Watching a persons eyes doesn't have to be limited to checking
on that pupil size, though. Just by watching where those eyes
go, for example, you can learn a lot. Notice what kind of women
a man looks at. Is he paying any attention to the game on the
TV? Does he seem bored or interested as he looks at different
things? Reading eyes is a good start to reading minds.
Note:
This was excerpted from chapter 7 of my ebook "You Aren't
Supposed To Know - A Book Of Secrets." Chapter seven continues
with explanations of how to read minds from various eye movements,
and how to subliminally influence people. The book is part of
The Secrets
Package.
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